Thursday, June 9, 2011

Public or Private?

I started this as a private blog, and only allowed friends and family to see it. However, I decided to let it go public a while back. This was something that I felt was helpful to several people who were just starting to homeschool and wanted some advice. But I have recently decided to go back to a private setting. I don't know if it will stay private permanently or not... But I'm happy to share with my friends and family any time... thanks for understanding. :)

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Lamplighter


I have always loved the idea of sitting in our living room couch with our boys and a good book. I have loved the picture in my mind of me reading a wonderful book to the boys that is not only interesting to us all but has a great lesson. I've tried. And once in a while it works. But so often I find that I have picked a book that wasn't as wholesome as I'd hoped. Or the book is just plain boring. Or both. Oh, once in a while I find good ones, but it's hard! And I don't have a lot of time to preview books. Not only that, but I like to experience the book along side my boys.

Over the years I have looked longingly at the Lamplighter catalogs. But I hadn't had the chance to see them 'in person.' I'm a tactile person, I have to see the books, touch the covers, and turn the pages. I finally had the chance to see the books up close and was I impressed!!


If you are a book lover you may identify. At first glance, I fell in love! The books are hard cover and beautifully bound! Right away I can see that these will become heirlooms that will last for years. I don't know who will fight harder to own them, my oldest son, youngest son, or myself!

Once you get past the amazing quality of each book, you'll look deeper at the stories. The stories are some of the best, most engaging, "living books" I've ever seen! Read the first paragraph of nearly any of the books they publish and you will be hooked!

Are they just good stories, entertaining? Not at all! While they are good and entertaining, most were written in the 1600-1800's, and they go deep into issues of the heart. Character themes represented in these books include... Laziness & Perseverance, Choices & Consequences, Courage, Obedience & Boundaries, Peer Pressure, Pride & Willfulness, Salvation, Self-Control, Selflessness & Selfishness, Sibling Rivalry, and Virtue & Purity.


Not only have they published fantastic literature, but if you are like us and love a good audio drama while in the car, you will not want to miss out on the Lamplighter Theater! We just listened to Sir Malcom and the Missing Prince. Prince Hubert is in need of a lesson. He's lived a pampered, priviledged life and is a bit spoiled now. He and needs guidance before he can be a worthy king. The boys and I were silently on the edge of our seats for 2 hours. We had a wonderful discussion about the lessons Prince Hubert learned and how we can also be servants to others. We have yet to read the book, but I can only assume the book is equally (or even more) engaging! Right now, we are listening to The Captive and eager to see how it ends! Not only entertaining and well produced, but each story has amazing lessons that our children (and we parents!) need to hold close to our hearts! If you love Focus on the Family audios, you really must listen to Lamplighter Theater.

Lamplighter recently began producing illustrated books for younger audiences. Some are the same stories as some of the favorite books for older readers, like Teddy's Button. But they are shorter, a bit simpler to understand, and very well illustrated.

Are you intrigued? Would you like to see more? I'd love for you to check Lamplighter out online and see for yourself the amazing collection of literature and audios! I am an affiliate for Lamplighter and that means that my friends and family can order at a 15% discount by using this link (you may have to copy and paste it in your browser with no spaces.)

http://www.lamplighterpublishing.com/emailpromotion.asp?key=LAMP107&dest=http://www.lamplighterpublishing.com/products.asp?dept=49

When you put an item in your 'cart' it will then show your discount. If for some reason it isn't showing your discount, you may need to use my code, LAMP107. You can also request a free catalog on that site, which I recommend so that you can make a wish list. The catalog is also very good at breaking down what books are good for which ages, and it shows what character themes are covered in each story, too.

I hope you enjoy the Lamplighter site, I'm so excited to share it with you! Please let me know if you have any questions.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

It's Homeschool Convention Season!

And what a glorious thing, that! I love the Convention!


If you haven't been to a convention, I'll take a minute to let you in on why I refuse to miss one.

1) It is my break time! I get to get away from my normal daily routine for a few days! Granted, I'm very spoiled in this. My convention is 2 1/2 hours from my house. But only 30 mins from my Dad's! So I get to stay at his place which is a bonus not only because it's free, but good 'catch up time' for my Dad and me! Sometimes I take the boys, they get to do some fishing and golfing with Grandad. And sometimes I go alone (which actually is much easier for me to focus but either way works...)

2) Speaking of focus... I get to focus on what I'd like to accomplish in the next year of education in our home.

3) The Used Curriculum Sale!! I think I have an addiction that needs help on this one. I LOVE used books. And a used curriculum sale is the best! This one is bigger than any in my local town (though I don't miss any of those either!) I am able to find rare items that may be out of print, or maybe pick up something at a reasonable price that I'd othewise have to pass on buying. I also find curriculum and supplements that I have always wanted to see "in person" but have been unable to till now. I don't know about you, but I like to see it, flip the pages, and decide if it's for me.

4) The vendor hall... As much as I love a used sale, I also love the vendors. Here's why~
A) I can't always find what I need at the used sale.
B) Sometimes you just have to have 'new' no matter what.
C) It's a very good thing to support these companies. Many of them are homeschool families, and who doesn't want to support them? And if we stop buying a curriculum, the company may stop producing it.
D) Again, I like to see the curriculum "in person" before buying if at all possible.
E) I get to ask the vendors specific questions.
F) A lot of booths offer special prices at the Convention!

5) The speakers... I don't care how long I have homeschooled, by the first weekend of June (this is when our annual convention is scheduled, and like Pavlov's Dog, I start drooling near the end of May) I am ready for some support in some area. Maybe I need the 'hang in there' speech, or maybe the 'here's how to juggle housework and homeschool' talk. Whatever my need is at that time, it seems there is a speaker covering just what I needed to hear!

6) The fellowship... Let's face it, there is nothing like being with other like-minded moms and dads. It is encouraging, and I've built new friendships as well as nurtured old ones. This one thing is worth attending!


"But," you say "I get so overwhelmed!" Let me tell you how I prepare and see if it helps. A convention can be overwhelming, but I'd prefer you to be refreshed instead. ;)

* Make a binder with the following things inside...

* Make a list of books you already own. This is a great thing to have on your computer, keep updated, and print off when you head to sales. As the years go by, I honestly forget if I bought that one book or just considered it. Then I bring it home and find that I had 3 other copies already haha!! Even with my list, I still sometimes do this. But the list helps!

* Make a wish list, with prices! I list all the books and supplements that I'd like to buy for this year. Then I list the prices I can find them for online. This way I know if I've found a good deal, or not.

* Bring some blank paper and a pen. You'll want this for notes, phone numbers/e-mails of new friends, etc...

* Don't impulse buy on day 1... Take time looking at the curriculum. If it's something you are considering, take time to think and pray on it. It will be there on day 2. Ask the vendor if they'll ship it to you for free if they run out before you purchase your set. They'll often do that with no problem. This way you are sure about your purchase and excited for the school year rather than having buyer's remorse the first night.

* Look for audio CDs of the convention... Most every convention offers audio CDs of the speakers at the convention. This is a great option because chances are you'll wish you could be in 2 classes at the same time. Or you may find the class so interesting that you wish you could take it home and listen to it over and over. The CDs are usually very reasonably priced.

* If you just aren't sure... Still overwhelmed at the vendor's booth? Take their catalog and feel free to order later. You might miss a 'sale' at the convention, but it may be better to hold off and make sure this is the curriculum you want.

I will be heading out tomorrow, I love this time of year! If you have a question or concern about conventions, please feel free to comment! :) I won't be near my compupter from Wednesday night till Sunday night. I hope you have a blessed week, and if you are going to a convention, have fun!!

31 Days To Be Continued... Overwhelmed!

I really haven't fallen off the planet. But I had to postpone the 31 Days challenge for a bit. Not because it's overwhelming or not doable. But because I hit a wall recently. And I want to take the time to do it properly.

I think it's somewhat in our nature, as moms, to push ourselves past a healthy level of activity. Some of it is beyond our control. We have to take care of our kids, our homes, our husbands, and if we homeschool, the education of our kiddos. But for some reason, that plate isn't quite full enough.

Correction, it's packed full. And yet, we can balance a bit more on our plates if we stack it right, and maybe if we juggle it just right we can add a few more things on top of the top. But eventually the balance is gone and the plate topples.

My thyroid isn't exactly in tip top shape. I know lots of ladies can identify. If you know anything about the thyroid, you know that it has a lot of influence in how you are feeling. As does your immune system and your adrenals. It seems all of mine were tapped out. I ordered a few herbal products to help get back on track. But by Monday morning last week I was unable to stay out of bed for very long at a time. My order came on Tuesday and I'm happy to say each day is an improvement! I've got a ways to go but I'm much more human these days.

Don't write yourself off as emotional, crazy, too tired, etc. You may need to re-evaluate what is on your plate. And then find a really great Naturopath who can help balance those hormones. It's so worth the time and effort!

As for the challenge, I'll get back to it later. When I have time. Hahaha! Yes, I need to scrape a few things off the plate! But first, the homeschool convention! Woo Hoo!

Monday, May 16, 2011

31 Days ~ days 9-15

It's been a while! Not only has life been busy, but my computer decided to be naughty. I had to send it to the shop to get fixed. Then, after I got it back home I had to leave for the weekend. We had a fabulous ladies retreat! This meant my week was all over the place. So I had to do some creative planning on the 31 Days. I shuffled a few days around and make it work. I crammed most of the weekend into Wednesday and Thursday, knowing I'd be busy packing on Friday and not home till Sunday night.

So here we are on Monday morning. I have already done the assigned duty for today the 16th, but not the 15th. So I'll do that today (wash mirrors, walls, windows, clean window treatments, dust ceiling in the bedrooms.) Then, I THINK, I'll be on track for day 17 on Tuesday the 17th.

Sometimes in life we just have to get a little creative with our routines to fit things in. And sometimes we just have to let things go entirely. I'm glad I was able to fit things in this time. However, after a weekend away, I'm looking at a house that is in need of some TLC today... ;)

Hope everyone is still hanging in there on the 31 Days to Clean challenge! Even if you have to juggle, cram, or draw it out longer. It's worth the time.

Monday, May 9, 2011

31 Days~ days6-8

I don't want to get sidetracked... I did days 6-8 on Friday the 6th. I figured that with a busy weekend ahead (helping to build a new beach in our area on Saturday and Mother's Day on Sunday) I had better get my kitchen work done on Friday. So I'm pleased to say that all my cabinets, drawers, and pantry shelves were cleaned and organized. It took me about 3 hours to do, but it was so worth it! I LOVE how each cabinet looks when I open the door. I'm probably the only one in the house that appreciates it, but I am very happy to have it done. I need that to be an annual event, I think. :)

Today is day 9. I haven't begun yet, but I will. Today is the last day of the kitchen duties for the 31 Day challenge. :)

Thursday, May 5, 2011

31 Days~ Day 5

Short and sweet today... We were asked to wash the inside windows of our kitchens and also clean the window treatments. I had a very full day planned and I had my kitchen window chore done by 8 this morning :) Woo hoo! My boys and I were able to enjoy 2 hours at the park today, which is a huge joy considering it's the nicest day of the year so far!! :)

I'm not sure how much I can get done on day 6 as I have Mother's day projects going, but I want to get what I can knocked out as early as possible tomorrow, also!

Have a fabulous Thursday!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

31 Days ~Day 4

Welcome to day 4. I started this day trying to tease my boys that it's Star Wars Day (May the fourth be with you...) yeah, poor kids.

So today's challenge was timely~ To clean the microwave and oven, inside and out. Here's the story...

The other night, my hubby was being so sweet by baking a pepperoni pizza. This was great and it gave me a night off from cooking. Last night I made some white bean chicken chili and thought that corn bread would be lovely as a side. My 7 year old did a great job preparing the cornbread. I had the oven pre-heating as I was stirring the chili. Every time I walked over to stir the pot I thought to myself "why does it smell like a BBQ?" And at one point I thought "hmmm, smells like the neighbor is BBQing hot dogs or something." I did have the kitchen window open over my sink. But I haven't smelled any BBQ coming from that yard in a while. So it really struck me. Back to the cornbread. I opened the oven door to put the nicely prepared dish in to bake, when what did I see but a flame go WHOOF when I let the fresh air into the oven. There, on the bottom of the oven, was a chunk of pepperoni pizza, at least that's what it was at one time. Now it was a black piece of charcoal on the bottom of the oven, with about a 4" flame rising up. I closed the door, grabbed one small handful of baking soda, opened the door and found that to be an effective end to the drama. I reached inside with salad tongs and pulled the char out and tossing it in the sink where a bowl of water was ready to receive it. It was a great lesson for my son. He learned about fire and baking soda. Also, we're learning about the water cycle, so he saw steam come up from the 'pizza' in the bowl. We talked about that just today, in fact. Hey, you gotta take everything and make it a lesson when you homeschool, right?

So, today's challenge to clean the inside of the oven came at a good time. Other than that, the oven wasn't in too bad of shape. I had been wanting to clean the glass on the front anyway. So this was a good time to do it. While cleaning, the sink turned into quite a mess. So I worked at scrubbing that with a bit more elbow grease than normal. Then I cleaned the microwave and toaster oven. While I was at it, the top of the garbages looked grimey, it's what I get for buying white ones, yes? So I cleaned those. Then the door to the back yard looked sad, too. So it got a quick wipe down. A little ADD? Yup!

In addition, Wednesdays are my dust, vacuum, mop days. So I got all that done, as well.

The Mary challenge, I'm still going to have to work on. I haven't even had the time to consider it and honestly I'm about to throw a hat on and leave for the evening. What's on the ageneda? My hubby and I get to clean at his work tonight. I do walk on the wild side. :)

How is the challenge going for you? I found a great link today for the 31 Days to Clean calendar! This way you can post it and have it handy all month long. The only thing missing are the Mary challenges. But you can look those up in the book. Here's the link! http://www.4shared.com/document/8KtghJaP/31_Days_to_Clean_Calendar.html

Happy cleaning!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

31 Days~ Day 3

Today is day 3. It was the shot in the arm that I needed. Arm... speaking of which, my shoulder has been acting up. So while I worked hard I really tried to be gentle on my bad shoulder.

The Mary challenge said to ask your family what makes them feel most loved when it comes to you caring for your home. Well... the wording, unfortunately, went over my husband's head. And it hit me, I'm communicating in female terms again. So I had to re-word it a bit and find out what it was that he liked when he walked in the door. His response? The smell of food cooking for dinner, and peace. Not arguing amongst the kids and a frazzled "I have NO idea what we're having for dinner so don't even ask me" look on a frazzled wife's face. Hehe. Not that I ever have that kind of environment in my home! Ok, yes I do. But I usually try to have the kids do a quick pick up of their toys, I try to tidy up a bit and run a comb through my hair and sometimes get a candle lit before he walks in. It doesn't happen every night but I do love to do it when I can. So, tonight, knowing what he likes, the house will be picked up, and dinner will be in the crock simmering. That's all it takes.

As for the Martha challenge. THIS is where the shot in the arm comes in. Now, I have "wipe tops and fronts of cabinets and refrigerator" as a part of my routine (I use index cards from the SHE system.) So they weren't too bad. However, I still had my Snow Village on the top of my cabinets. They look so cute up there that one year I left them year round. The upside? Not having to take them down, pack them up, carry them to the basement, only to do the reverse in a few months. The downside? They were gucky and gross and needed a good cleaning after that. So, today I pulled them all down and packed them up and the boys helped me get them to the basement. I admit, it felt good to get them put away and I loved having the boys help. My shoulder? It's not as happy but I'm working out...

A couple years ago I bought some cute little garden decorations, birds, flowers, etc. I never splurge on decor. But that year I really wanted something springy. So today I brought it out of the box that it was stored in since last October and put them in place on my cabinets! It looks so cheery!

I did wipe all surfaces while I was at it and even scrubbed the light fixture over the sink. Now I need to ask my sweet hubby to take that one last box to the basement, cuz this shoulder is finished. I hope you are being blessed in this 3rd day of the challenge! :)

Monday, May 2, 2011

31 Days~ Day 2

Created to Give Life... That's today's title.

Before I get into the meat of this chapter, let me just say I breezed through the Martha challenge, to clean the inside of the fridge and freezer. It felt good. It is on my routine to do, but I've let it slide lately. So it was much needed and I have to wear sunglasses when I open the door now. :) Now on to the tougher one...

Sarah points out that one of our special gifts from God is to give life... A few of her examples are with our words, in our homes, in education, church, socially, culture and arts, and heritage and traditions.

Our Mary Challenge today is to consider what I can do to bring life to my home, my children, my husband, and my sphere of influence. This is a question I haven't really considered before. At least not consciously. How about you? Have you really sat and pondered this before?

I think that something as simple as a smile to give freely to our families is a very small but profound way to give life. And yet, in the rush of our day we can often forget such a simple token of love. I also think words can have life or death. And when we're tired and feeling like we're running behind or not getting enough done, we can lose those life giving words and that smile to be sure. I think I resemble a porcupine more often than I'd like to admit.

So how can I find that smile and those life giving words? By being rested and not feeling behind all day. And how does that happen? For me, it is by being up before the family, having time to exercise and get in God's Word. If I have that time alone in a quiet home I find myself much more at peace to start my day.

But wait, the alarm clock is going off and the bed is so warm and the snooze button is calling my name! So this can't be where it starts, can it? I'm still missing something...

Like dominoes we have to go back to the first one to start off the chain of events. So we really need to go back to the previous night. If I can get myself to bed earlier, I can get up earlier. If I get up earlier, I can exercise and spend time with the Lord. If I can exercise and spend time with God, I can start my day with peace and order. If I can start my day with peace and order then I can have a smile for my family when they get up in the morning. See how it's like dominoes?

So, that said, it's 9:08 PM and I really need to be heading to bed soon! This is a hard habit to start because our lives are so busy. But I'm going to start making an effort. It's obvious that it won't happen naturally. So, goodnight all!!!!!! See you on day 3! :)

Sunday, May 1, 2011

31 Days~ Day 1

It's day one and already this day was more challenging than I expected. And to think, it's only day 1! Sarah asks us to come up with a mission statement as a part of our Mary Challenge. The Martha Challenge is pretty simple. Since I seem to have every cleaning item under the sun, so I didn't have to go looking for anything.

But a mission statement... Oy! She said it should only take a minute to read. She didn't know how long winded I could be... I want a clean home, not because I'll be in some magazine, or look like I have it all together for surprise guests. But how to put into words the reasons deep inside my heart for an organized and welcoming home...

I have to admit, I actually kind of enjoy cleaning. It's true! I love going to cleaning seminars and bringing home new fluffy dusters and microfiber mop heads. What I don't like is the clutter. That's another story. Once upon a time I felt guilty for enjoying cleaning. I had some people tell me that it appeared I really did have it all together. I felt so bad, because I didn't want to make anyone feel like I was better than them or that they weren't doing as well as I. I truly didn't 'have it all together' at all. But, how silly that was!! Were my eyes on God or me?? The fear of man is a strange thing. I don't think ANYone really has it all together, we all know what's stacked in our closets, emotionally and physically. But a dear friend told me that if God gave me the ability to work in my home, and even enjoy it, then I ought to joyfully go about doing just that. So long as it isn't taking away from my family. Anything, even cleaning, can become an idol.

But how do I put it all together into a 'why' statement? I was told once to always write in the positive, rather than saying how I wish things were or what I don't want to do. So, here goes.

"Daily I desire to bless and honor the Lord, first, doing all as unto Him. "So as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to Him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the Knowledge of God." Col 1:10

I am blessing my husband, who works so hard outside the home. He has a warm, inviting home to return to each night. Our boys are blessed by the nurturing environment I create. "The heart of her husband trusts in her..." Prov. 31:11a "Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her." Prov. 31:28

My home is welcoming and peaceful so I can bless others. "She provides food for her household... She opens her hands to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy." Prov. 31:15b,20.

My home reflects peace and joy, and my heart is bountifully blessed. "...and she laughs at the days to come." Prov. 31:25b

I work eagerly and willingly for the love of the Lord, my family, and others. "She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness." Prov. 31:27 "She works with willing hands." Prov. 31:13b"

If I want to read it in just a minute, as Sarah suggests, I can leave out the Scripture verses. But I really do best when I have Scripture to guide me. :)

How's everyone else doing on the mission statement?? See ya on Day 2!

Saturday, April 30, 2011

31 Days to Clean Cometh...

Tomorrow is Sunday, May 1.

And that means 31 Days to Clean starts tomorrow!!


If you don't have your e-book yet you can find a kindle copy or digital copy at http://31daystoclean.com/ for only $4.99! It is well worth owning.

So, I'll see you tomorrow as we start a 31 day journey to CLEAN!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

31 Days to Clean- Having a Martha House in a Mary Way

Have you heard the buzz about the new e-book 31 Days to Clean by Sarah Mae???

Is the title enough to get you curious about what lies inside the pages???

It is for me!

Ok, maybe some of you think "oh boy another organizing book." I know that I own them all. But I haven't seen one quite like this. Look what the website says... "31 Days to Clean is about the “why” and the vision and the heart for taking care of our domains. Each day I encourage you with some thoughts and ideas, and then we put those ideas to action.

After each days reading, you will be given two challenges:

The Mary Challenge -Something you do that encourages/engages your heart
The Martha Challenge – Specific cleaning tasks"

See why I'm intrigued?

You can find more information and can buy the book online for only $4.99 at http://31daystoclean.com/

So here's my plan... I want to get my hands on a copy and THEN I want to start blogging about it here. Is there anyone else out there who'd like to join together for 31 days??

Let's do it!

Monday, April 4, 2011

Waves

I've been not-so-quietly watching lots of opinions fly online lately. Most particularly, the recent debates over Peter Enns, Ken Ham, Susan Wise Bauer and Jay Wile. Not-so-quietly, because I had to post a few comments online expressing my concerns. I find it so hard to keep quiet. I considered posting on my blog several times. But I just couldn't find the words.

Today is not really any different.

A month has gone by and I haven't posted anything here. I just haven't been sure what to say or when.

One observation... I'm seeing that there are a precious and beautiful few opinions based in Scripture. And when those precious opinions (let's call them truths, they are no longer opinions when based in God's Word) are shared, it amazes me to see the quick reactions from others. The reactions are rarely Scriptural responses. Instead they are common catch phrases that I bet you've heard before... "You can't judge... that's just wrong to point a finger... you can't say that about a 'brother' in Christ..." And on and on it goes. It's so sad. But I'm afraid that is the direction things will go. Be tolerant of everything except for the Bible and those who stand firm in the teachings of the Bible.

And it hit me.

This is all so much noise.

These many opinions that are floating around, are just opinions. I'm 100% behind Ken Ham, we need to point out false teaching. But it makes me all the more aware of how important it is to be grounded in the Word so I'm not swayed by opinions or by being politically correct. How can I lead my kids if I am not grounded?

My job is to be grounded FIRST, and then to lead my kids to also be grounded. And if I am going to use any books or curriculum along with the Bible, I had better be SURE of what that author is trying to teach. I want our boys to be able to stand firm, to fight when it is necessary, to not be tossed to and fro...

Ephesians 4:14
"so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes."

We may be accused of causing waves by holding to absolute truth. But I'd much rather be causing waves than be tossed by waves of false doctrines. In the end, I'm accountable to the Lord for how I've raised these kiddos. Consider this warning...

Luke 17:2
"It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were cast into the sea than that he should cause one of these little ones to sin."

Go create some waves. Happy teaching...

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

All About Reading

I know that one sign of the new year is curriculum shopping. In our home, once the holidays are over and winter decorations come down to be replaced by spring-time trinkets, I find myself thinking of what new things I can bring into our homeschool. Maybe it's spring fever? Looking for something fresh to breathe new life in our routines. If that is you, I have a little food for thought on a new program.

I looked high and low for a spelling program that we'd all agree was fantastic. I tried several, and while many started out well, they didn't keep my son's interest. This year we started using All About Spelling and he has loved it. Since my youngest is doing The Phonics Road (the spelling portion of this curriculum is basically the same format as AAS) he probably won't be needing All About Spelling. But my oldest will use it to completion. I have been very grateful for this spelling program and I highly recommend it to anyone who isn't doing The Phonics Road.

But that's not what I'm going to introduce you to (for more information on AAS, click the link on the right side of the page.) No, what I am talking about comes from the makers of AAS. This is All About Reading!!


While I'm head over heels for The Phonics Road, I also know that AAR will be a fabulous resource for parents and I just had to share it with you! I am well aware that no two families are alike and that variety is the spice of life. So if The Phonics Road isn't for you, prayerfully consider All About Reading for your budding reader.

I'm providing a link on the right side my home page. You'll find all the information about what's in the AAR kit, plus at the bottom of the page you'll see links to sample pages! I love samples!

The 2nd link I'm providing is for two free activity booklets! These fun, free e-books are great for pre-K and K students.

Since this is a brand new curriculum, I haven't had the chance to try it myself. If you have ordered this and are using it, please feel free to leave comments on my blog! I'd love to hear your opinion. I can only speak to the high quality and standards that AAS has consistently provided, and I am sure to see that kind of quality in the AAR program as well. Happy curriculum hunting!!

A Few Helpful Weaver Links...

I have had a few precious websites that I go to for information about Weaver. I thought that it may be beneficial to pass them along to anyone out there who hasn't already seen them. :) They are...

The Weaver Overview, a scope and sequence at a glance...
http://g.christianbook.com/netstorage/pdf/scope/54296.pdf


The Unofficial Weaver Pages site, run by Kelly Huckaby...
http://unofficialweaver.com/


And the Weaver Yahoo Group...
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/u-weaver/


There is a page on facebook for both the Unofficial Weaver Pages and The Weaver Curriculum.

So enjoy your surfing and please post questions, concerns or fun things you are doing in your Homeschool journey. :)

Friday, February 25, 2011

The Weaver Experience for Dads...

In all my blogging about how the Weaver is set up, I didn't mention the very last part of the Resources section in Volume 1!

"A Father's Devotional Partner for the Weaver."

Let it first be noted that I haven't yet given this to my husband. I am planning on it, though, because I see it as a very valid activity. I simply haven't taken the time to sit down and explain it and let him read the pages, yet.

This section is only a few short pages. But they are so rich. It has an open letter to dads, explains how Weaver is set up, and has many copies of cards that mom can fill out for dad. Let's face it, dad is busy in many of our homes. I know that my husband is overloaded with responsibilities. He works full time to support our family, and that is a blessing. This allows me to stay home and teach, clean, cook, nurture, well, you know all that we do all day!

But sometimes, since dad is busy as the provider, he misses out on the education. We hear moms talk often about how disconnected their husbands are as far as schoolwork goes. But Mrs. Avery has thought of a simple way to keep them in the loop.

These little cards are brilliant. Mom fills in the 2 days that a bible section is being covered, let's say Thursday and Friday. And she fills in the lesson number and bible verses used. She fills in the title of the lesson, ie- Injustice of Pharaoh vs. Justic of God. She fills in the Academic Topics, ie- Power and Function of Royalty, Past-Present, Poetry. Dad, then, can note any specific experience or knowledge on the back of the card. He can share that information with the kids at the dinner table or bedtime, or where ever it's appropriate.

There is a Devotional reminder for dad that says he is to write thoughts on the back of the card including insights, experiences, or questions raised by the Scriptures quoted. Consider the title and topics, how do you better understand God? And what could you do to apply this new insight to your life?

Then there are check boxes ~ Listened to memory verse, shared personally on unit, 1 activity for wife (ask), 1 activity to relax you, 5 minute chat with 1 child. This is just a great set of reminders. When my husband gets home at night, he does a great job connecting with the kids, but this would give his time with them more forethought and depth. He doesn't think out ways that he can relax. And the kids have AWANA verses that they say to me regularly. But how fun it would be to have dad review them each night at the dinner table or at bed.

Please note that this is not something to hold over dad as "one more thing" to do! Poor guy! Be gentle and understand that if he is just not able to add more to his long day, it's ok. Maybe he'd be willing to do just part of it? Maybe you could make up your own cards? He isn't required to do everything on the card. The purpose is for him to have 5 or 10 minutes in the Word, reading what his kids are learning and adding his information as he sees a need.

If we implement this system, I will likely be posting more about it. But I felt it was important to share that Mrs. Avery has set up a way for dad to be involved, even if he can't be home helping in the teaching. Dads are a crucial part of home discipleship. Let's keep them lifted in prayer. :)

Thursday, February 24, 2011

The Weaver ~ In the Beginning...

It just isn't possible to sum up The Weaver in a paragraph. So I suggest that you grab a cup of tea or some chocolate and put your feet up for a few minutes while I tell you our experience thus far! We've not been using it that long, but I have to share what a blessing it has been for our family!

When I first started homeschooling my preschooler in 2004, I was drawn to the idea of a Unit Study approach. I loved the idea that I could teach both kids on the same topic but at their own level. I looked over some types of Unit Studies and just didn't feel like God was opening the door for me to use any of them. Either it was clearly not for our family, or it was so overwhelming to me that I couldn't picture how to make it work. I tried various styles of learning, and all of them were wonderful in their own way. But something still seemed to be missing and my longing for unit studies didn't go away.

Unit studies have a base that all other subjects are centered around. For example, many are history based. As the student learns a new part of history, all the other school subjects deal with the same topic. Some are based on science. But still, none of them stood out.

Now, if you have read my article My Foundation for Homeschooling you will understand where I was coming from. I didn't want to just have 'Bible time' as part of our day. I wanted every part of our education to point our eyes to our Creator. And, it is sad to say, sometimes Bible time would get left out of our day because we ran out of time.

No matter how good my boys are (and I do think they are pretty good kids), they had many days where apathy was the attitude toward their school work. I know that we had the curriculum we had because I prayed and felt so certain in what I bought. And I still feel certain, I believe God had us where He wanted us, using what we were supposed to use.

In the late fall of 2010, I once again found myself asking the Lord if there was something else I had missed. I truly don't recall where The Weaver first popped up. But it was online somewhere. One reference lead to another. I was getting very curious and excited!

I wasn't looking to change things THIS year. I was thinking ahead to next year. But along came a sweet woman who happened to have an extra set of Weaver volume 1. I didn't expect to see it come so soon, but the mail moved FAST and it was at my home in a matter of a few days. I tore open the box and started to devour the information inside! It was as if this was written just for us!

What is it that makes me love it so? First, this curriculum is based in Scripture. So let's say that today we read about the Tower of Babylon. We'll then start learning about architecture. Then we'll build some sugar cube buildings. You can see how that little project turned out on my article http://hearts4home.blogspot.com/2011/01/new-year-goals-weight-lifting.html New Year Goals. With that in mind, you will never run out of time for Bible, because it all STARTS in the Bible! You can't do any other school work without opening in the Word!

Library time is always fun for us. We love it! But now it's a scavenger hunt. We look ahead at the unit we'll study and write down the topics, the books the author suggests, and a few rabbit trail ideas of our own. Then we head to the library with our list in hand ready to attack! We come home with stacks of rich videos and books.

Before going any further, let's go through the binders together...




Day by Day... Some people opt out of this planner, but I love it. I think you have to remind yourself that it is a tool. You aren't a slave to the planner. You can do, or not do, whatever you like. Each unit is separated by a divider. At the beginning of each unit divider is a "Unit Preparation" page (or pages.) Becky Avery (the author) has put these pages together for the educator to read in advance. It explains what you'll be teaching, possible book suggestions for read alouds, and supplies you may need.

From there, each page is labeled by the day. So you'll see Chapter 1: Day 1. You won't see Monday, Tuesday... There is no hurry in this. You do each day as you feel you are ready. Under the Chapter and Day is room for you to write in the date, and she has the theme written. Ie- "The city, Creation vs. Evolution. Under that you'll see a "thought for the day" section. These can be read to the student or can just be a pick-me-up for the teacher.

Each subject is in bold print below. So it opens with Bible, listing the reference to read, it tells you which bible lesson you will read from in Volume 1, and any other supplies or information you'll need for the bible study on that day.

Below that comes the Social Studies OR Science section. I say 'or' because you trade off every other day. This keeps it fresh for my boys! They love doing something different every other day. Under Social Studies or Science you'll see a list of grade levels and objectives. We'll come back to that in a bit.

After that is Language Arts OR Health and Safety, again, alternating. Then a list of books and supplies needed, creative writing suggestions, Wisdom Words (if you so chose to use her Language Arts program). And it ends with Math and Reading sections which are left blank. This way you can fill in what you want to use in your home.

A little side note... We have chosen not to use Wisdom Words. However, it is a fabulous program and I wouldn't have a problem using it at all. Instead, we chose the Phonics Road series. You can see more of that on my blog as well. Our math (currently) is Math U See for ds7 and Life of Fred and Calculadders for ds10.

Now for the BIG binder... Volume 1! Upon opening, you'll notice it has an overview of the entire volume. This is handy to see what you'll be covering at a glance. Mrs. Avery then has several pages of information, introduction, and ideas on scheduling (if you aren't using the Day by Day planner.) Then you'll see those lovely Unit dividers. Open divider Unit 1 and you'll see a Unit and chapter overview outline. "Unit 1, Chapter 1, 10 days" is the first heading, with the outline below. Of course you can make a unit last as long as you like. Remember, you are in charge of the flow, so if you want to follow rabbit trails, go for it! But she suggests how long a unit ought to take for planning purposes. Then comes "For Your Information" where you, the teacher, will learn more about the topics you'll be teaching. So far all these pages have been white in color. The Bible Lessons and suggested reading list will also be in white. After that the colors change and they become quite important.



This is another of the areas that I love in Weaver! Each grade, from K-6, is separated by color. So all pages of lessons for Kindergarten are golden rod. If I have a student who does work at a K level, I will turn to the golden rod pages no matter which unit I am on. She assigns them as grade levels, but you decide what level you want your child to work. In fact, they may be working at K level in science and social studies, but in language arts you feel like putting them on the grade 1 work. You have total control over the work they will be doing.

At the end of each chapter you'll see white pages again. Don't overlook them! There, you will find vocabulary words, health and safety, field trips, observation projects and memory verse suggestions.

So how do these 2 binders work together? Remember, earlier, when I said I'd get back to the grade levels and objectives? Here we go! So when Day by Day Unit 1 Day 1 says to teach your K student Science Objective #1... you'll go to Volume 1 binder, open it up to Unit 1 Chapter 1, turn to the golden rod colored pages labelled Kindergarten, look under the science section and read Objective 1! Day by Day will tell you exactly where to find everything in the Volume that you'll do that day. Simple! So I have those little post-it notes that I use as my own dividers. In the Volume, I have one saving the page we're on for my 1st grader, and one for my 5th grader, and one for the "For Your Information" section for me! In the Day by Day I have one that holds my place each day.

At the very back of the Volume you will find the Resource tab. Mrs. Avery will often refer you to something in that resource section. So don't overlook it, there are several useful pages!

One quick note: There are 7-12 grade supplements that you can order to make this curriculum go all the way through graduation! I haven't seen those, personally, so I can't speak to them. Maybe someone will leave a comment here that explains those further. But I thought it important to let you know it does go through grade 12. In the same manner, there is a Weaver Interlock binder for Pre-K! So it can be a complete curriculum from beginning to graduation if you wanted.

What about the cost of all those books she suggests? I have found that some of the suggested Milliken books are worth having, however I bought them used on Amazon and other places. And I wouldn't recommned them unless you are dealing with upper ages, possibly 4th grade up. The usborn books are great. They are generally easy to find in the library, but worth looking for if your library doesn't carry them. Speaking of the library, most of the topics you'll cover can be studied in depth with books found at the library. So you could honestly do most of your studies with the library and the internet. No major book investment needed! I also found that many of my books on my shelf at home have worked just fine.

What does a typical day look like for us? Amazingly smooth compared to before! Remember when I said there was great apathy many days in our schooling? No more! We usually start with our AWANA memory verses. Then we'll move into the bible study and sometimes I'll add an extra book or even bring out a hymn CD to sing together if it fits the lesson. Then we move right into the topics that the Day by Day has laid out. The wonderful thing about a unit study is that both boys are learning the same things together! When we've finished with the work listed, I pull out the Phonics Road to Spelling and Reading for ds7, ds10 works quietly on his Calculadders. Then ds7 watches his Math U See video or does his MUS workbook while I work with ds10 on his Bridge to Latin Road. We do all of this from 9:00-11:00 each morning. Sometimes we may go right up till noon depending on what we're covering. Any time left over can be spent with ds10 doing a read aloud with ds7. Last week we studied composers, so ds10 would read a picture book to ds7 about any given composer. After lunch we usually have a very free flowing time. The kids may take the afternoon to enjoy the sunshine outdoors. They may play card games. Or they may be found turning their school work into play. And this isn't unusual since we've started The Weaver! They learned about architecture, so in free time they watched DVDs about buildings and bridges and they built them out of legos.

Gone are the days of complaining about school. Back are the days of awe and wonder over what we're learning! Do we still have bad days? Sure! I think any homeschooler has to question their sanity at times. But I am so grateful for the joy and interest that The Weaver has brought back to our learning!

Feel free to ask questions or post comments. :) God bless you in your journey, no matter what it looks like.

Monday, February 14, 2011

My Journey on the Latin Road... so far

Everywhere you look, you'll find articles explaining why you ought to start early or start late in teaching grammar to children. I decided that I didn't want to start my kiddos on grammar at too young an age. My oldest is 10 now, and we started him on a great program in the 4th grade. I loved it, and I still do.

However, when I switched our schooling to a unit study approach, I was overwhelmed by our read alouds. The grammar we used had a long list of great literature, and I can't fault it for that. But adding all the unit study books to that list was just too much for mom.

I believe it is important to have a strong foundation in reading and writing. My oldest son is a great reader, and he's a fairly strong speller as well. But I just didn't feel like we were heading down a solid path with grammar, we needed something and we needed it fast.

After some prayer and searching, my dear friend introduced me to The Latin Road. She has been using The Phonics Road with her children, and I believe I can say she's had great success! If the Phonics Road was that solid, I had to look closer at the Latin Road to English Grammar.

I have to put up a small disclaimer, in case anyone thinks I'm being paid for this review. I'm not. I did sign up to be an affiliate because I think this is an amazing program. But this review is strictly from my own opinion over these last couple weeks. This may get a little long winded, so you may want to grab your cup of tea now before pushing ahead...

As I was saying, after prayer, consideration, my friend's recommendation, online reviews and even calling to talk to the author, I decided to jump in with both feet and buy not only the Bridge to the Latin Road for my 10 year old, but also the Phonics Road level 1 for my 7 year old! If my 10 yo had completed the Phonics Road, we'd just jump straight into The Latin Road level 1. However, since we hadn't, we are using the Bridge to the Latin Road to be sure he has a strong foundation in grammar.

I'll start with the drawbacks, so far I see only one. The cost. I spent quite a sum of money to get both products. However, and this is a big however, I would do it again! It is that good. If you feel God is leading you this direction, then I would encourage moms to find a way to afford this... stash any extra money, have a yard sale, a baked goods sale, get creative because you won't be sorry.

Let's start with why I chose the Bridge to the Latin Road to English Grammar. As I said, I didn't feel our grammar up to this point was strong enough to go right into Volume 1. So thankfully, Mrs. Beers has already considered that and made the Bridge! This is a fantastic grammar program that covers all the bases so thoroughly that I'm convinced I'll be learning a thing or two, as well! She also has no senseless busywork at all! Everything serves a purpose.

It requires my son to use cursive throughout the program. I'm grateful, because he's gotten lazy in that area. Many people see no need for penmanship today. But I disagree. I think it's still important to express yourself with the written word.

You may like to know what you are getting for your money... The Latin Road to English Grammar comes with a teacher's guide, DVDs, and a student binder, latin cards and verb cards for a fun verb game, as well as pencils for the student (black, red, and blue, to be used according to special instructions in the course...)

The teacher's book is well laid out. There are daily lesson plans and each page of the student notebook is copied in the teacher's book, with all answers filled in. Not only filled in, but in cursive handwriting so that the child can look and see that he's written his work properly. In the picture you can see my son's work next to the teacher book.

The entire Latin Road series is laid out as if the child was training to become a builder. So the first section of the binder is called Framing Codes. You'll find your daily schedule, grammar tunes and some basic learning there. The second section is Sentences to Analyze. And the third section is labeled Designing Codes, where he'll find the Latin Roots.

The first few weeks take the child through the basics of grammar. It fully explains nouns, verbs, adjectives, pronouns, etc! It then moves the child into diagramming sentences. I saw no need for this when I was a student. Until, that is, I started studying a foreign language. Mrs. Beers knew that learning a language would solidify grammar for the student. And because Latin helps to teach a firm foundation in spelling and vocabulary as well as giving a better understanding of the English language, it was a natural fit!

So is it a grammar program or a Latin program? It is both. The Bridge to the Latin Road is mostly grammar, but begins to add in Latin roots! It is a good introduction to her Latin Road to English Grammar Levels 1-3. All of these, however, still teach grammar. It's a great mesh of both!

The section called "Design Codes" is where the student will build a very useful resource full of Latin roots. For example, he will have a page that says "port," and he'll write that the meaning is "carry." Then he'll write words like "report~ carry back again."

Let's talk DVDs... Mrs. Beers understands that it is possible that we haven't all been taught HOW to teach this method. If you've read The Writing Road to Reading, you are familiar with the program's heart and soul, but you may not know HOW to teach it. So she has recorded herself teaching the program. It is like having her sitting in my living room each night, showing me how to teach this to my son. So you'll either want to sit down once a week and take notes in your teacher book, or you can take a few minutes each night to see what you'll teach the following day. I highly recommend using them faithfully. While The Phonics Road and The Latin Road both have DVDs, you probably won't watch the Phonics Road DVDs with your child. But the older kids can watch The Latin Road along with you, if that helps your child in his learning.

A fun part of the program is the Grammar Tunes section. She has come up with words that fit common children's songs. They help teach many aspects of grammar, are catchy, and let's face it, anything set to music is easier to remember!

Why did I buy the Phonics Road, also? Because it looked like a very solid foundation to teach my youngest son to read. He has some glitches in his learning. At the very least, we can identify an auditory processing glitch. Mrs. Beers encouraged me that this program takes children from parts to the whole and trains their brains how to work properly. She said I may have to work a bit slower with the program, but to be patient, it would work.

The first thing I did was set up a special 'Writing Space' for him. The table and chair fit him perfectly. And I think he likes the idea of having his very own space! In fact, my 10 year old is slightly jealous of this fact and wants his own space now as well!


Just like the Latin Road, the Phonics Road offers the DVDs! Again, can't say enough good about this, it helps me on so many levels. After all, I want the best education for the kids, and I have no time or extra income to take a class. But I can pop in a DVD and take some notes. The DVDs also teach Grammar Tunes, like the Latin program.

This program also has the teacher binder and the student binder, a black and a red pencil for the student, a marker and "Handy Dandy Clipboard" with a clear plastic sheet for practice letters, and flash cards. The flash cards teach the child to recite the sounds of each letter or letter team, rather than the letter name. For example, when you show the 's' card, the child says "sss, zzz" representing both sounds the 's' can make, starting with the most common sound. By week 5 they are reading words quite naturally, and by week 15 they are reading the enclosed readers for which they get to make custom illustrations. No more guessing at the words based on the picture included! Also, no more tracing letters! All letters are taught by the teacher showing how to do them properly, and the student follows along using their clipboard and marker.

If you have questions, feel free to ask and I'll do my best to answer. You can also click on my link on the right side of the page to see the official website. It is loaded with information that I found very helpful, as well as Mrs. Beers' phone number! She is a wealth of information.

In the end, the program is only as good as it is for your family. It may not be the solution you are seeking. But the only way you'll know is to seek the Lord and see if He is leading you to this. :) God bless!

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Something Old, Something New...

No, I'm not planning someone's wedding. But I am looking at something old, something new, something borrowed, and well, there are some blue things I guess, too.

In our homeschooling, I have always trusted God to show us what to use and where to go. We've always had interesting, exciting curriculum. But in the last couple months God has really shaken things up, in a good way...

Something old... I'm sticking with a few old favorites. Good old books are among my favorite things! I love finding old books at book sales! We'll also be keeping our old math curriculum, Math U See, for our youngest son. We really enjoyed that with our oldest (till this year, that's part of the something new...) We'll also be keeping all our favorite old audios to enhance our history studies.

Something new... Well, there are a lot of new things lately. We started using The Weaver curriculum just a few short months ago. I have never set aside my entire curriculum mid-year. But this seemed so orchestrated by God that I had to just jump in with both feet. It's been a wonderful thing!

Something that isn't new (but was new in the fall of 2010) was switching our oldest son to Life of Fred, from Math U See. He was fond of MUS once upon a time but had grown bored with it and really liked the idea of LOF's story line. It was a good choice for him. He really enjoys math now! However, I was finding that some of the practice of math problems would disappear over time. So another something new that we'll start next week~ Calculadders. We'll do this in addition to LOF. He isn't thrilled with the idea of drills, but he's willing to give it a go as long as he can keep LOF as his main math book!

And finally our newest something new~ The Latin Road! The Phonics Road to Spelling and Reading for my youngest son and the Bridge to the Latin Road for my oldest son. We have used All About Spelling this year and may continue with my oldest son. It is based on the Spalding Method, which, it turns out, so is the Phonics Road! (Oh, The Phonics Road books have blue covers, there is our something blue!) Anyhow, I'm very eager to get them started, in fact I'm so eager that I won't wait till autumn. The beauty of homeschooling says I can start any time! So we'll begin that next week! I'll be posting more info about the program as I learn more...

Something borrowed... I am so grateful for other homeschooling moms and the library! Especially now that we've begun doing a unit study approach in our homeschool. It is a blessing to have a neighbor with which to swap books! And our local library is a wonderful resource to have available! It's like a big scavenger hunt every time we go there!

I intend to post more info about the programs we use and possibly even some photos. I hope it will be helpful to someone trying to pick curriculum. It is sometimes an overwhelming choice, but let the Lord guide you and you'll never go wrong! :)

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

My Commitment

Do you ever feel like your level of commitment is based on someone else's actions or reactions, or your own feelings? I have heard it over and over. Maybe it's about homeschooling~ "I can't homeschool these kids, they won't listen to me." My commitment to homeschool being taken down because of their actions. "Or, I did this because my spouse did that." As if the way your spouse acts should have anything to do with your level of commitment to the marriage. Or, "My boss is a jerk, so I'm going to ________." Justification, again, to act in a way that is not becoming.

Lately I've heard a lot of these, especially when it comes to marriage. I know that each couple falls in love and can't wait to stand before witnesses and promise to love, honor and cherish each other till death do them part. And somewhere along the way, the enemy will create problems. After all, marriage was God's idea, and so why wouldn't it be a difficult thing now and then? But it seems that so often we hear people say "well if they would have loved me like they were supposed to, I wouldn't have done this." Really? This breaks my heart. No matter what my husband and I go through, the word 'divorce' doesn't enter the conversation. I love that. I am completely safe in that commitment, I know he has no thoughts of giving in when I come up short. And vice versa. Does that mean hard times don't happen? Not so. We are still two people with sometimes differing opinions on life. But I have confidence in our commitment to each other before the Lord!

I know that I haven't loved God like I'm supposed to. Have you? I have not been a faithful bride at all. I mean, I do love Him, but not like I should. Not in a completely self-sacrificing way. Unfortunately I still think of my own feelings far too much. And yet... Christ still died for me. While I was still a sinner, He died for me. His commitment to me went all the way to the cross and beyond.

No matter what the circumstances, our commitment to people around us should stand firm in God's Word. My commitment to my husband is not based on how he treats me, or how I feel. It is a covenant, between my husband, myself and the Lord. I'm accountable to God for how I act and react in this marriage. And in my commitment to raise my sons. And in my job. Even if my job is 'only' around the home.

My work as a housewife should honor the Lord. When I'm doing things for my husband, I should be doing it with a joyful heart, serving my husband and Christ living in Him. After all, would I be snarling and grouchy to wash clothes for Jesus? If Jesus asked me to make a meal would I complain? I would hope that I'd be more than willing to do anything He asked. So why not have that diligence for my family? If I am doing for the least of these, then I'm doing for Jesus.

If you have felt a weakening in your commmitments, maybe leaning on feelings instead of facts, I challenge you to get to the Word and be refreshed. Ask the Lord for strength and vision. Clarity in our work. The ability to carry it out. He's more than happy to oblige.

Disclaimer- I am writing this because I, too, happen to be human. I've struggled over the years with my level of commitment too. It's as much a reminder to me as food for thought to anyone out there reading this. :)

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Food for thought on Frankenfoods

I haven't had the time to sit and think this one out as much as I'd like to, and even less time to type it out. But I wanted to give you all some more "food for thought" on this Frankenfood idea...

We put a lot of time and energy into learning about our foods and their sources. And we should! We should be questioning what we're eating and find what is truly healthy for our bodies. After all, if our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, it makes sense that we'd want to be good stewards of that body, yes?

How about spiritually? Are we eating man made 'spiritual' foods? Modified to taste better... Packed with sugars to make us happy and feel good... Addicted to the emotions, where we keep coming back for more...

Why are we addicted to the spiritual food that the world offers when we have REAL food in God's Word? And why do we not take and eat that every day? It is necessary and yet it so often gets neglected for the philosophies of the world. The Oprahs and Osteens. (Did I open a can of worms??) We have a very real God who wants to communicate with us through His Word. He has food that sustains and it is at our fingertips.

Are you settling for spiritual frankenfoods? Or the real banquet table of wholesome, healthy, life giving foods found in His Word?

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Frankenfoods?

I have often giggled at the term regularly used by Jillian Michaels and others~ Frankenfoods. But it should also make us think a bit. What's in our foods?

Now I do want to be a realist and enjoy a good meal at a restaurant. However, I try to be a bit more of a fanatic when shopping for foods in my home. People have asked me what guidelines I use in shopping for 'healthy foods.' First, I read labels. I read a lot of labels. And even though I find a product I love, I still have to read their labels now and then to be sure they didn't bring in ingredients I refuse to eat. For example, I had been purchasing a certain brand of bread with good (not EXCELLENT, but good) ingredients. I started making my own bread for a long time. But I went through a time where I couldn't make it myself and so I went back to buying that brand from before. I didn't recheck the label. I just went on faith. One day I read the label and found that they had started putting High Fructose Corn Syrup in it! Why?? So I will not buy it any more.

I was given a fabulous book recently, called Food Additives: What's Safe and What's Not. This little tool will go in my purse to the grocery stores! There are lots of ingredients that I have NO clue what they are and what they do to people. This book will help!

Another tool is DVDs... I just watched this movie http://www.thefutureoffood.com/onlinevideo.html recently, in DVD form. Then found it online for free. It discusses GMO foods (genetically modified.) Food Inc. was also a great resource for this information, I got it from the local library to watch.

I also have watched some DVDs on artificial sweeteners. Don't think they are harmful? Are you willing to bet your life on drinking them? I'm not! And watching movies like Sweet Misery (see this link for more info...
http://products.mercola.com/sweet-misery-DVD/ and you can read Dr. Mercola's book Sweet Deception for an eye opener on all artificial sweeteners!

In the end, we can only do what we can do. So learn to read labels. Learn what the ingredients are and why you do not want them in your home. Get involved in CSAs and other garden type co-ops. I learned to can a few years ago so I could enjoy our produce all year. My husband invested in a chest freezer for us to store produce also. We shop at many stores, not just one. And we read LOTS of labels.

I don't hate comments and questions. If you have any questions about this topic or comments on how you eat healthy, please let me know! :)

Monday, January 3, 2011

New Year Goals: weight lifting...

Luke 14:27-33 (King James Version)

"27 And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple.
28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?
29 Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him,
30 Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish.
31 Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand?
32 Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace.
33 So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple."

It's a new year, and that usually comes with new goals... Often those goals have to do with weight loss and exercise. I admit, I'm a sucker for those resolutions, and in fact I have a few this year as well! But I want to suggest a goal for weight lifting and cardio. The weight and aerobics? Carrying our crosses and following Jesus.

A couple weeks ago the boys and I covered this topic in our homeschool. They read the verses and talked about planning and counting the cost and building. This was a great bible study and illustration for spiritual truth, as well as a segway to our architecture unit. I gave them 2 bags of sugar cubes, one with 200 cubes, one with 20. Eagerly, they grabbed for the bag with 200 cubes. Mind you, I covered the idea of planning, counting the cost, considering laying cubes like bricks, etc etc. They didn't talk a lot about what they'd build, they just started building. The excitement of all those cubes took over all the talk of planning.
They worked so hard on that building, but it just kept falling apart. Half way through the building they changed their minds on how they wanted it to look. But it was too late. Things started crumbling around them.

With a little less wind in their sails, they took the bag of 20 cubes, and a paper and pencil. And they planned. They drew up ideas and talked about how to best use those 20 little cubes. And they had success. They built a much better structure!

It was a valuable lesson.


While there was a lot of opportunity for success with so many cubes, it turned out to be a flop because no one counted the cost. And the 20 cubes worked out much better. A lesson is hidden in there for us all. This turned out to hold far more spiritual truth than I could have given them if I'd planned it all out myself. And in turn, I also learned something.

Many of us call ourselves Christian, but have we counted the cost? Do we daily pick up our cross and follow Him? Have we asked Him what it means to be His disciple? In this new year, it seems appropriate that we take that time to ask what that means. People are watching us, and seeing if we've counted the cost.

As if this weren't enough, the pastor at church yesterday taught on this very lesson. I wish I'd e-mailed him these photos to use as an illustration! ;) But I'm guessing God is drilling home this point for me. It's time to dig in and really be His disciple! It's time to lift some weights this year, my own cross. Pastor said that if you are being crucified, you are looking forward, one direction, no turning back.

Galations 2:20
King James Bible
"I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."

New years resolutions are hard. Very easy to start but hard to see through to the finish line. And, hard it may be to die to myself. But that is what is necessary! Count the cost, pick up that cross, don't look back, go one direction only. And be His disciple, letting the world watch in wonder. :) Happy New Year!!!